"She is pure Alice in Wonderland, and her appearance and demeanor are a nicely judged mix of the Red Queen and a flamingo." - Truman Capote
Personality Assessment:
are you a pigeon or a flamingo?
I just finish reading 'Good girls don't get the corner office' by Lois P. Frankel and it blows my mind how much we can sabotage ourselves. Even thou the book is mainly focused on career choices and behaviors, I couldn't stop wondering... what other areas in live are we playing safe? Would you rather blend in and pass by an entire existence unnoticed just because it feels safe?
“Why are trying so hard to fit in, when you're born to stand out” ― Oliver James
I must quote one of our favorite risk-takers, Kelly Wearstler, which some love and others love to hate. “You have to take risks. If you don’t, you can’t evolve.” It takes a lot of courage to leave the house in the morning looking like she does or to tell a client that your idea of a home sweet home looks like this:
I am now reading 'Start the right business' by Marie Forleo and I was very touched when she says "You’re on the planet for a reason. God, the Universe - whatever
you believe in - does not make any “extra” peeps just for the hell of it. No other person ever has, or ever will, have the
unique blend of talents, strengths and perspective that you have."
So I thought to myself... going beyond the status quo it is like owning our truth self and expressing God's true will.
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” ― Mark Twain
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche
It sounds brilliant as a concept but throughout the day which voice do we mainly hear: The pigeon or the flamingo?